Never settle for less, wait for the best ♥

It is true, we seek love and want to be loved all the time. I won’t lie, I have always been a victim of this ‘longing attacks for the one’. But I know I cannot just jump into any man who’s offering everything to me. It is kinda tricky, some will lure you into their world with riches and never-ending material things. Some would even offer to name a star after you (which I really want, lol!). Kidding aside, I have learned to love myself and value my ‘oneness’ with deeper reflections and true emotions. All of us deserve the best. The best person who can bring out all the goodness in our hearts and spread it like wild-fire.

Personally, I want to be with a man who respects me for who I am, who would laugh with me no matter how hard moments are. I want to stand by a man who’s proud to be seen walking hand in hand with me, who can kiss me anytime without any second thoughts. I want someone who can appreciate the beauty of life and see the mountains in a different perspective. Someone who’s willing to get crazy-good-old with me.

We all want that ‘someone’. Who wouldn’t want that right? But greater things comes to those who wait… patiently. So I recommend, stop looking (unless you’re a man because you can easily pursue anyone if you are single) and while you are flying solo, there are a lot of things to be busy. Travel, read, recite poems, sing, dance alone and make yourself even better than yesterday. Before you know it, being single doesn’t hurt and when the right one comes, your happiness will double up.

Advance happy Valentines to all my single friends, and to those who have found ‘the one’, NEVER let go and keep the love burning! ♥

Are BF’s really needed by age 27?

After dinner, my two best buds and I were talking about relationships, life and things in general. Little did I know that my dad was listening to our conversation. Our topic was mainly about “us” three being single, then he said “You are wrong, at your age, you SHOULD have boyfriends so you’ll have inspiration”. He really pushed the words ‘should’ into his sentence. We were shocked but laughed out in unison. I bet he just wanted to say “Daughter please marry soon, you are running out of time”. He Just rephrased it.

So my mind was filled with thoughts again. Are boyfriends really needed at this age? I guess not, I have said it a thousand times, if I am just a man, I could have pursued someone I really like and love. Unfortunately, I am a lady and I firmly believe that “Super great things comes to those who wait, patiently“. So dad, if ever you get to read this post, please, yes, I will have a boyfriend, my friends and I will have boyfriends (and marry soon and have kids) but not now. Just not now. No rushing! Just imagine life without me at home, who will prepare your coffee? Who will make you laugh? Who will you call ‘beautiful anak’? I am 100% sure you will miss me. 🙂 Also, there is nothing wrong with being single, as long as we’re happy and contented with our colorful lives.

Thanks Ghel and Jambi for coming!

Singles and with glasses ♥

Now who would want to marry these crazy girls? Haha!